0112-9 Months Before

  • Set a realistic overall budget
  • Draft a rough guest list
  • Choose a wedding date
  • Book ceremony and reception venue
  • Hire a wedding planner, if using one
  • Research photographers and videographers
  • Choose your wedding party
  • Create a shared planning document

028-6 Months Before

  • Book photographer and videographer
  • Book catering
  • Order dress or suit
  • Book a florist
  • Book music: band or DJ
  • Start planning the honeymoon
  • Create a wedding registry
  • Book hotel room block

035-3 Months Before

  • Send save-the-dates
  • Order invitations
  • Finalize guest list
  • Choose bridal party attire
  • Book hair and makeup trials
  • Plan ceremony structure
  • Book transportation
  • Order wedding rings
  • Book officiant

042 Months Before

  • Mail invitations
  • Finalize menu with caterer
  • Confirm timeline with vendors
  • Finalize accessories
  • Final dress fitting
  • Write vows
  • Apply for marriage license
  • Draft seating chart

051 Month Before

  • Track RSVPs
  • Finalize seating chart
  • Confirm final headcount
  • Pick up marriage license
  • Confirm details with every vendor in writing
  • Break in wedding shoes
  • Plan rehearsal dinner
  • Pack for honeymoon

06Week Of & Day Of

  • Confirm arrival times with wedding party
  • Give final headcount to venue
  • Pack an emergency kit
  • Delegate a day-of point person
  • Get a good night's sleep
  • Eat breakfast before getting ready
  • Assign someone for gifts and cards